Several complaints and/or issues have been brought to our attention. I intend to address these complaints here today.
I need everyone to understand that Antony, Jadez, and I, as owners of this SisterWives site, answer only to God. Now, we will listen to issues that our
members feel concerned about, and we will try to address these if they are within the realm of our board. What does this mean? It means we will not take care
of anything considered off board communication. We will not put in a good word for families to single women or for the single women to families. We do not
accept the role of cupid. This is an information/support site. If rumors/gossip occur that cannot be visibly proven, we will not handle those either. We
will however take care of any written in post or chat transcript form (chat transcripts must be provided by the members: use copy and paste function).
Families and men, we need to REMEMBER that our single women are human beings. They are not FRESH MEAT! We need to treat them with respect!!!! They are here
for support and guidance as well. Most single women find it overwhelming because families inundate them with mass emails trying to harpoon them in as their
potentials. Walk around in these women skin for a while! How would you really feel if you were them? Would you like to be treated like you were a prize to be
won? Would you enjoy being objectified? People also find it necessary for some reason or another to ask these women very personal questions within the first
few correspondences. Some men have asked them things like, "What is your bra size?", "Are you bi?", "Can you send me a naked pic of
you?" These are just a few examples. Single women here please share some of the questions or statements made to you by families or men that
you found personally intrusive and/or offensive. Men or women have even sent some of these single women naked pics of them-self.
Seriously people? Our single women are human beings with feelings, and we need to treat them with the utmost respect that they deserve. Some people have even
cyber stalker these women. Listen if a woman is not interested, leave her alone!!!!
How can you get to know these women then? Seriously, come into chat and make some friends. These women need people who respect them and want to be their
friends first and foremost. Make a connection through chatting with others. Treat them with respect, and leave your sexually perverted comments to yourself.
Women are not here for men to treat them like they are sexual objects. They are here for support , information, and companionship. Women DO NOT allow these
sexual deviants to get away with this horrendous action here. If men objectify you, pleas copy and past the chat session, and email it Antony.
When in chat or making a post, DO NOT USE OBSCENE LANGUAGE! We do not need to hear about someomes penis, buttocks, or breasts unless we are talking about sex
for practical reasons in the realistic poly section of the board. Offensive curse words should NOT be used as they do offend some people.
People, let's remember that we are adults, and let's act as such please. It is perfectly fine to disagree with someone but debate this logically. NO
belittling other people or name-calling. Seriously, this is ridiculous! Try to treat others here on the board how you want them to treat you. If you need to
know how to make a logical argument, please look up rules and guidelines for Lincoln Douglass Debate. This style is a great communication tool.
As the owners of this community, WE reserve the right to ban someone from this forum or to kick them out of chat if we find their actions to be unsuitable! We
do not answer to anyone in regards to this right. If you have been banned for a period of time or kicked out of a chat due to breaking a guideline, DO NOT
under any circumstance believe that emailing us and cursing us out and demanding that we play fair to you will change our minds about the decision we made.
Bad behavior will only cause further consequences. We are here to help and support poly believing people. We are not here to be diminished by ANYONE! WE put
a great deal of our efforts into this site, and WE DO NOT HAVE TO! I do not want to hear how unfair you believe our decision to ban or kick you out of chat
was. I am not sure who told you life was Fair, but they lied to you! If you believe that a misunderstanding occurred that led to your banning or being kicked
out of chat, then by all means write us a FRIENDLY email POLITELY addressing those concerns. We will take what you say into consideration. However, if you
make demands or diminish our character in anyway, your thoughts on the matter will be of no concern to us.
Another thing, keep the gossip, rumors, and slander to yourself! I NEVER understand the need for human beings to talk about others behind their backs spreading
gossip, rumors, and slander. Don't do it!
A final word: Remember, the intent of this site is to supply practical polygamy information and support! We need to treat one another with respect.














